How do you split a stag do across different budgets?
Best man wants a Vegas weekend; the groom's brother is on the pull-out sofa at his mum's. Here's how the budget actually works.
Stag and hen weekends have the widest budget spread of any group trip — best mates in their late 30s with mortgage-paid houses, alongside university friends with three months till payday. Equal splits push the lower-budget people out before they've even said yes. The pattern that works: a fixed-price 'core' (accommodation + one big group activity + one group dinner) that's truly equal, and everything else as opt-in. Publish the core cost early; let people opt in or out of the extras without losing face.
Steps
Worked example
Eight lads, three budgets
Best man Pete plans a Lisbon stag for the groom Jonny. Core: £210/head (hostel + paintball + opening night dinner). All eight in. Tasting menu Saturday at €70/head: five in, three out. Saturday night casino: each person sets their own budget. Final EvenRound view: all 8 paid £210 to Pete pre-trip. Tasting menu logged as a 5-person expense. Casino not tracked. After-trip settle-up: small adjustments only.
Stags can include people across budgets if you publish the core cost early and ring-fence the extras. EvenRound handles the running tab so the best man doesn't have to.